Ok. I knew it was insane before. I let it go because it, at least, wouldn't occur in the same day. Yesterday, however, was different for some reason...
I have been asked to "bring me my keys" before. I've been asked to continue the search for housing big enough for the both of us before. I've even been told I need to find somewhere else to go. Even though I'd been told I should help pay for a house that will one day be mine (and I knew I'd HAVE to be insane to take that offer up), all of these in the same day is just amazing. Why am I 26 and getting phone calls, having left the house that morning and it was a couple of hours before it even got dark outside, to bring her her keys (I normally get these calls after I'd been away for a day or so)? W. T. FFFFFF. Besides that I get asked "do I need to put you out?" on top of the horrible attitude on the phone and I just didn't want to talk to her anymore after that. I get home and its all "I'm going to look at some apartments tomorrow, you wanna go?"
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WHY on EARTH would you talk about PUTTING ME OUT and then ask me to go look at NEW HOUSING SITUATIONS.......WITH YOU?!?!??!?!???!?!?!?!?
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I really don't fucking get it. I mean, maybe on different days, but on the same freakin day? I really need to find a time when we aren't annoyed with each other (which will sadly probably only be once I move out) and sit down with her and ask her what her problem really is. I am pretty sure I already know. She wants CONTROL. I said before in a post that controlling fire fueled by fire and doused with air was going to be hard (and I think my next post will explain that comment) and I think she's finally realizing how hard it could be. I'm not easily controlled...whether you're doing something for me or not. The problem is, I am too polite to not recognize that a person IS doing something for me, so whether they actually see it or not, it keeps me from doing things the way I'd really want to do them. Most of the time I'd *like* to do things with a side of "fuck you" served up right with them, but I tend to throw the "fuck you" to the side and remain as cordial and polite and appreciative as I can. I. Need. To. Leave.
I did say the tone was gonna change, didn't I? Well, the other front is still swimmingly, disgustingly beautiful. I'm SO happy its ridiculous. I'm positively sure it will only get better and better and that fact is amazing. Loves it.
Alright, I'm tired and tired of typing.
OOOO....except I just decided to share that I was ecstatic to find two skeins of camouflage yarn today!!!
Ok, for real now.
G'Night.
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